Sunday, 22 November, 2009

This girl will definitely end up in a divorce

Frankly I really hate feminist, esp those feminist with out dated ideas.

Neubs and I were having lunch at mos burger yesterday and as usual, I ate pretty messily. So he started teasing me and I was laughing at all his jokes about me. well people who knows us will know how we’re like. I say he is disgusting, he’ll say I am disgusting blar blar blar and we’ll laugh about it. Basically we’re a very easy going couple who don’t believe that oh we shouldn’t say this or that because I’m a girl or his a guy.

But I guess there are very up tight people in this world AND we met one. After our meal, I went to wash up (my dress and hands had gravy all over, ya I know I’m messy). Neubs like a typical guy, didn’t need the washroom and waited outside. Know what, this idiot girl actually went up to him and gave him a lecture about how he shouldn’t talk to me that way. WTH!!!!! Neubs didn’t give her a peace of his mind only because I came out too fast, but we were like what the shit. The girl was really young, probably in JC or something coz her bf looked like a whimp. He looked so scared, she probably terrorize him everyday. ‘oh you can’t say this or that because its disrespectful’ Really who was she to comment. She doesn’t know us as a couple, she doesn’t know how we talk to each other, she doesn’t know anything at all. I bet she was learning about feminism in one of her lectures that’s why she’s so weird.

The thing is, if a relationship has so many rules, then it’ll be such a closed up one. I don’t like it at all if Neubs keeps his comments to himself. Frankly I’ll really pity her coz she’ll be those type of woman who’ll divorce her husband on the grounds of unreasonable behavior. Her husband say something like your ass looks big, then she’ll say he is disrespectful, then she’ll scold him, then they’ll get a divorced. Girls like her are so dumb. Can’t take a joke and are so crazy over ideals. So domineering and all.

I believe in a relationship there shouldn’t be such strict rules about respect. I feel like people like her always feel that women are placed as the weaker sex that’s why they fight so hard for respect. Which is really crap actually coz instead they push women to take the role as the domineering sex so that’s really crap too because where is the equality? Its so stupid really. I let Neubs tease me and he lets me tease him, to the both of us, we know we respect each other. Its just a joke, we can take jokes, we’re not petty. That girl’s got lots of growing up to do, if she doesn’t change, really, I foresee that she’ll either never get married or end up in a divorce. Smart shit.

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